Can people who have never met you tell if you are a covert narcissist?

In 6 months she was nite and day, everyone saw her and complimented her. She was easier going and thankful great laugh and company.

6 months later she tried contacting me, through her cousin I said far too late for apologising F off. But gave in. Stupid move was warned by her mate. Within less than 6 weeks the 3 things I said u need to promise was broken all 3 and more in less than 24 hours she was remanded for being a 46 old mother who cares only about herself 2nd chance third or 4th really and even seeing him or speaking on the phone is to much. She cant sit on her own for long i know she's not sitting thinking about the poor clever kid on the spectrum possibly, 9 woke up to his dad unfortunately tragically died in his sleep far too young because she is nothing like she said. Because I questioned things before I would of said what a shame. Constantly playing the victim until it became serious. She lied about being raped by a dealer before the door went in which was a setup. The dealers were set up. She said its all written in the statements. I said where are they? The kitchen so I read the pages wasn't interested in what the contents are apart from the assault. I said what am I looking for couldn't give a fuck about the rest, so a snappy-look at walters statement it's in there. Surprise, surprise nothing. A burner was mentioned ( a cheap pay as u go fone she jumped on that- see see fits that about. So I said what I couldn't care about anything apart from what happened to u.

Cut long story short, she blanked me as I finished her boys room up thankfully I seen him getting a visit to his house and beloved dog. He was thriving and chuffed. That afternoon 6 months no contact within hours she moved into a guys house who did the opposite she knew because her cousin had custody for 1st 3 months. And told me if she was seen with him NEVERMIND staying getting pissed again and her chances of getting her 6 year old fatherless son back was gone.

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The start of the year she was too full on a red flag or lovebombing. She was in bad way, really unwell 1 litre vodka a day through the day and other issues not necessary to speak about. I had a few issues aswell the opposite to hers different substances. 6 months with a lot of help from others even her workers new I was her support. After a heavy going bullying tactics by a certain social worker. She was a nervous reck. The only 1 not on her side. So I and others said its 1 person not the decision maker end of the day.

Why they can't see what damage they can cause or triple standards, lying, thieving childish plain wrong cruel behaviour. Once u find them out. After I gave her another chance stupidly after putting her first for 6 months. Did up the house ( can't say too much incase) the house was the easiest thing. Most or everything I kept to the 2 of us as her son was the most important thing in her life. Her partner his dad died tragically, can't say more.

Within 3 days I handed my key in. I'm used to my own company so had asked plenty do u want the weekend to yourself, always got the same answer if a want time I'll tell u! I seen her evenings and stayed weekends for the 6 months I bought a £250; pristine refurbished phone 3 weeks before being discarded. That was 90% sure sold for C.C.

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Short answer no. They can be charming especially to strangers. Unless ur an expert unfortunately if u get involved you're in for the biggest head messing ever. Especially if u feel empathy and have a moral compass. Uv low self-esteem

Depending on the age size of town. Eventually they will all be found out. Especially in a small town. If it hasn't happened by 45-50 soon will. It's happened to the person I was willing to right wrongs for her. Putting me away if need be.

Next thing after an hour or so of lies. I said at 5am I'm going to their house. Panic stations set in NO YOU'RE NOT. Grabbed keys said yes i am. Ran down jumped in the van knocked on the glass part of door near smashed it, thankfully the sister answered had no idea why I was there but if the brother who keeps bad health answered I've no idea what would of happened. And it would of been nothing he'd done. So I explained what i had listened to from her. And said please tell me the truth was she raped in the toilet by a dealer. She looked at me mouthed no and shook her head. That was it a couple female mates. Blew my mind excuse the pun. And said she probably dragged one into the toilet as she liked to do and went on her knees enough Said. Making her feel younger and important but doing the opposite an old laughing stock. I tried but the damage done is massive to everyone including herself. Mostly her son. I can't forgive that. But forget her it's done. She's resulted to the local bully who nobody likes and is as stupid as they come. Sounds like the big man fron chewing the fat. But like all bully's is the opposite total wimp. Then the thicko said go make urself sick again u anorexic. Class I said I was anorexic u pair if thick cee u next Thursday s. Bulimia is when people make themselves sick. Nice people that was unusual at the time in a small minded town being female but 9 year old boy 25v year's ago. Was unheard of. Silver chair Frrakshow sums it up. Atleast I can put weight on. LH u will be obese all year life. Also mouth piece u maybe battered lots of ur family please try ask the med she always said I was good with my hands. Some things can't be faked fun while it lasted.

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